DATING TIPS & ADVICE FOR SINGLES
Author: Darryl Stewart
Date: June 11, 2013
Categories: Adult Dating Dating Advice Dating Tips Uncategorized
SINGLE DATERS, GET YOUR DATING TIPS!
I’m here to report that there are no guaranteed ways to catch Mr. or Miss right. As long, as dating has existed no one really could explain the way love works. Not all dating tips work for every individual. However, there are sets of general dating tips that can be followed by everyone and the good news is everyone can learn how to become a better dater, learn how to attract the right matches, overcome your struggles and make sure you have chemistry.
There are three types of daters, the serial dater, the new dater and the person who is reentering the dating world. The dating advice I’ll outline in this article will be universal to all of you. Each group and take these practices and apply them to their dating life to create success. If you follow these tips you shouldn’t be single for much longer.
THE DATING CHECKLIST
Firstly, you have to entering the dating world with a positive attitude, believing in yourself is more than half the battle. You’ll have to keep an open heart and be prepared for rejection. A lot of times for men and women find love, they have to go though some bad experiences. The basic rule to remember is to never give up.
Secondly, you need to feel for you best. A great piece of advice that everyone can follow is to be confident. How can you gain confidence? Get a haircut, join a gym, get a trainer, go for a massage or just general beauty and grooming. When you look and feel good, other people will see it and feel it. This is a dating tip you can’t go wrong with!
Thirdly, go shopping! Who doesn’t like to hear that? Get out to the mall and spend some money on new clothes that fit you great and make you feel wonderful. Do more to make you feel better. This is a dating rule that should never be ignored and its very easy follow. Buy things that are you style and forget trying to turn into someone you’re not, this is all about you.
Fourthly, daters need to goal set. Goal setting for men and women looking to date is highly important. You need to ask yourself exactly you want. Are you going to be taking dating seriously or are you just in it for the sex? Make a decision on whether you’d like to be married in five years, date with the goal of moving in together, whatever it is your decide work for it, its not going to come easy.
Fifthly, you’re going to need support. When you’re pursuing a new relationship positive support from your family and friends will be a major key to success. If you find you’re in a situation where people are giving off negative dating energy, stay away! You’ll want to be surrounded by love and good feelings. A good tip is to stay away from someone who is in a bad relationship or has become to too jaded from too many awful dating experiences.
Sixthly, you need to be realistic. Don’t over date and make the right choices. Don’t date over or under, know where you stand. If you’re a four out of 10 going after an 8 out of then, the chances are you’ll not be a match. Stick to where you belong, everyone deep down knows exactly what number they are. For you best chance at a relationship follow you heart and the love will come. There’s nothing wrong with being a realist.
Seventhly, get out there! Make yourself available. You’re not going to find any dates at home watching movies alone. Ask your friend to go out for drinks, join a sports team or go to a singles social. This is advice that a lot of people seem to ignore, but its one of the most important rules to follow to be successful in finding love and relationships. However, if you’re shy you should try online dating, SocialSex is a good place to start.
Eighthly, don’t get exhausted from dating. If there comes a point where you’re getting tired and its just not working, heed this tip, take a dating break! You can always get back into the game when your head is in a better place. You don’t want to meet anyone when you’re not emotionally at your best.
Ninthly, take a step back and realize that dating is just dating. Sure it can change your life, but don’t set your expectations to high and never settle just to settle. You’ll be a lot of nice people who have interesting qualities, that doesn’t mean that’s the man or women for you. Be patient, follow these tips and love will find you.
Lastly, never put it all out there. Don’t show your cards right-off-the-bat. Keep some mystery, people like that. Give a glimpse of who you are and enough to keep the person interested, reveal little by little on each date.
These dating tips are for the single dater. No matter which of the three categories you belong, they are all are universal and will create success for you in love and relationships.
Author: Darryl Stewart
Originally from Rhode Island, Darryl Stewart moved west to Los Angeles where he attended The University of Southern California. There he obtained his masters degree in Communications, and now he currently works for a major television network.